There were some interesting comments last week. Some people feel like asking someone to say “I love you” makes it not count, even if that person complies. I’m not sure I agree. Some of us are raised in families where self-expression or emotional displays aren’t encouraged. Personally I don’t feel like it’s ever a bad idea in a relationship to communicate and ask questions, even if it’s awkward and puts the other person on the spot. I’ve played the game where I needed to hear something and waited for my husband to read my mind. That usually ends with me getting angry and him being confused. So in my personal experience, expressing one’s needs is good. Does that mean I’m whiny and insecure? Maybe. If so, my man is cool with it, and that makes me feel pretty damn loved.
Get the hopelessly romantic novel: https://geni.us/Summer
Listen to the highly entertaining audiobook: https://geni.us/summer-audio
Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jaybellbooks
Twitter: https://twitter.com/JayBellBooks
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jaybellbooks
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AuthorJayBell